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Meditation practice

Updated: Dec 21, 2025

What is meditation?

There are lots of ways to meditate. The one I do most, as part of my yoga practice, is Samatha, which translates to “calm abiding”, or “tranquility of the mind”. Samatha has been part of the Buddhist tradition since the very beginning.

This Buddhist meditation is basically sitting with yourself. When you see pictures of people meditating they always look calm and serene, but that it certainly not how it always feels.


Meditation is not what happens while we sit but how it plays out in our life

  • It’s getting to know yourself

  • Stuff comes up – sometimes we want to reject it because it is not expected or not welcome, but really it’s just us


Why meditate?

Here are a few benefits of meditation

  1. Meditation has been shown to have health benefits

    • Reduction in stress levels

    • Lowered blood pressure

    • Improved sleep

  2. Over time meditation practice encourages self-awareness

    • With this comes growth in compassion, emotional intelligence, and greater resilience to life’s problems

  3. Meditation fosters skills of attention and focus

    • If your thoughts feel like a tangled ball of wool sometimes, meditation helps to tease out the strands into  lines of thought that can be constructively woven together

  4. Meditation brings happiness

    • Not the superficial instant pleasures of modern life like a new purchase or a social media “like”

    • But a deeper contentment to be the person you are now with what you have and where you are


How to practice

Meditation is a very low-maintenance practice – you need no special equipment, just a quiet place to sit for a few moments.


Approach

  • Don’t try to be the best meditator, just apply the technique

  • Know what your motivation is

  • Be kind to yourself – it’s ok to feel what we feel about ourselves

  • Remember that meditation is not about improving ourselves, but reminding ourselves


    A good meditation is one where you show up


Technique

The technique could not be simpler, but that does not make it easy

  • Take a comfortable seat

  • Place your attention on your natural breath

  • When your mind strays, bring it back


We could elaborate a bit on this…

  • Sit on a cushion - knees lower than hips – even if you can sit without

  • Move if you need to, but only if you need to – for example if your back starts to hurt, or you get pins and needles

  • Keep your eyes open – this is an awakened practice

    • But with a soft gaze – avoid focussing a stare at a particular point

    • This mediation is not about retreating, it’s about being present and awake – in the moment


Why focus on the breath

  • Breath is personal, portable, practical and in the present

  • We need something to anchor ourselves to avoid being adrift in our thoughts

When Ghandi was being instructed on meditation he was told about the elephant: if an elephant is led through a market he will grab at everything he sees with his trunk and eat it. However if you give the elephant a stick to hold with his trunk, he will walk through the market without taking anything.


Try it now

  1. Sit comfortably, on a cushion on the floor or on a chair

  2. Focus on the sensation of your breath. Feel the intake of cool air as you inhale through your nostrils, and the flow of warmer air as you exhale.

  3. If your mind wanders, notice that it has (that's the hard bit), and bring your attention back to your breath


Notice how you feel


You can meditate anywhere, and yes your dog can be the room too!
You can meditate anywhere, and yes your dog can be the room too!

 
 
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